abt relationships...

i had wanted to post on this topic since last week, but haven;t got the time to.
i really wanna share this wif my frens, esp my closest frens have recently got attached.
so this is for u - yx, yr & cc...

firstly it sounds rigid to introduce steps in a relationship to monitor the progress, and for me an evergreen to gif advice abt this makes me a little uncredible. but nevertheless, i think there's some logic behind certain rules to obey in a relationship.

order of progress for a relationship shld be -

1) spiritual
2) emotional
3) physical

and not the reverse order.

why? simply becos i believe in a relationship, it shld be celebrating two persons coming tgt instead of coming tgt to satisfy each others' needs. so first and foremost, me as a christian, believe that when the relationship involves the Holy Spirit too, the relationship can be better withstand trails...

i wish all of you in a relationship to learn to appreciate one another more, and not just sustain a relationship wif mere sweet things for one another becos one day u'll run out of ideas...